Why can’t you stop?
A client’s daughter was very excited about an upcoming game. She’d been working hard in soccer practice and this was the first time she would play f...
Category: Leadership
How the train taught me to see
I play this game whenever I remember it. At my best it happens when I have a big response, especially anger or resentment. I pause and try it when I’m fru...
Oh, by the way, Pandemic
When I returned to America after carbon monoxide poisoning, I couldn’t think clearly enough to work on most days. For the first few weeks after I got to s...
Are You an Internal or External Processor?
When facilitating or leading a team, a key distinction will either draw out and amplify the creative power of the group or turn every meeting into a bland serie...
A New Years Haircut
This year I hope that before you plan – resolutions, goals, and missions for personal growth – you try something else first. My hope is that y...
It’s Only a Model
This has to be said so often that it’s worth its own post. In fact, you were probably nudged here from another post as a reminder. Most importantly: It...